Courage Lets You Chase Opportunities - Part 2

"If you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it."
~Anthony J. D'Angelo
Do you know why people stand around and listen to you (or someone else) complain?
It's not because they care. It's because they are waiting their turn to complain. It's like a never-ending cycle that just keeps sucking in more and more people.
For that reason alone, you need to back away from any complaining. If you start complaining, all of the crude you complain about will double and you'll be stuck in grumble mode forever. All of the crap that everyone else complains about will come your ways too.

Is that what you really want?
If the victims in your life (again, I'm not pointing my finger at you…yet) aren't blaming or complaining, then they are probably justifying their situation. "I didn't get all of the advantages that people with money get." Or how about, "money's not important" or "I don't need money to be happy".
These are classic lines and we've all heard them. Heck, most of us have probably said them. One way to think about justification is to think of it as borderline denial. If a person believes that money is not important, it's because they don't have it. I'm not saying this to be mean, but it's true.

Money is important and that is not a bad thing.
It helps provide the things you need and the things you want. It helps to make aspects of your life easier so that you can focus on the things you enjoy. People with money understand that money is important. People without money downplay the importance of money.
Once you understand that it's important and you believe that you can have it, it will be yours. But, you have to believe deep down inside, the place where your subconscious lives, that you can have it. If you don't, then you're no better off than if you didn't believe at all. A non-believer is just as bad as a complainer. They don't believe because they don't understand. If they don't understand, then they have given up their goals, their dreams and their ambitions.
The biggest mistake you can make along the way is to give up. By giving up, you're putting all of your hard work and changes down the drain. Is that what you really want to happen?